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Discover Insights from a Self-Improvement Author

At debbiefrakes.com, I share my insights and experiences as a self-improvement author dedicated to personal growth and awareness. Through my book and blog, I explore the intricate relationship between trauma, self-awareness, and neurobiology.

The Journey to CALM: A Perfectionist's Guide to Letting Up, Slowing Down and Finding Peace

Have you ever wished you could send life lessons back in time? In The Journey to CALM: A Perfectionist’s Guide to Letting Up, Slowing Down and Finding Peace, I share 10 essential tools for achieving lasting peace by reflecting on my own journey. Through personal growth and transformation, these tools address common struggles, offering a fresh perspective on life’s universal challenges.

By embracing Consciousness, Action, Letting Go, and Maintenance (CALM), we explore self-worth and purpose together. This book is your empathetic guide to navigating life’s toughest moments with wisdom and serenity.

Speaking Engagements

In addition to writing, I am available for speaking engagements. I love connecting with audiences passionate about self-improvement and personal development. Whether you’re interested in a workshop or a keynote speech, I look forward to sharing my journey and insights with you and sparking meaningful discussions.

Ruby Slippers and Red Shoes

Join me on Ruby Slippers and Red Shoes, a blog where I delve into topics that matter to so many of us: personal growth, healing, and mindfulness. Check out my blog to discover articles and reflections that inspire change and foster deep understanding.

Ruby Slippers and Red Shoes

The Journey to CALM: A Perfectionist's Guide to Letting Up, Slowing Down and Finding Peace

Have you ever wished you could send life lessons back in time? In The Journey to CALM: A Perfectionist’s Guide to Letting Up, Slowing Down and Finding Peace, I share 10 essential tools for achieving lasting peace by reflecting on my own journey. Through personal growth and transformation, these tools address common struggles, offering a fresh perspective on life’s universal challenges.

By embracing Consciousness, Action, Letting Go, and Maintenance (CALM), we explore self-worth and purpose together. This book is your empathetic guide to navigating life’s toughest moments with wisdom and serenity.

Speaking Engagements

In addition to writing, I am available for speaking engagements. I love connecting with audiences passionate about self-improvement and personal development. Whether you’re interested in a workshop or a keynote speech, I look forward to sharing my journey and insights with you and sparking meaningful discussions.

Cover of "The Journey to Calm" by Debbie Frakes, featuring soft waves and calming colors. The book offers guidance for perfectionists seeking peace and relaxation.